crazy pastors and even crazier fathers!

so my friend goes for counselling to this pastor he happens to be good(so am told)and so as they talk they end up discusssing her relationships and she tell him that her boyfriend is not "saved"(its in quotes because am still trying to discover what it truly means)so he tells her that she has to dump him because he is not good enough for her and that she will find some one who is saved. i was so mad because she was convinced that he was right(forgive my tenses)him being saved doesnt make him better her boyfriend happens to be a very goood man not once as he ever asked her to sleep with him respects her decision regarding waiting.and he is reliable she lives in what me and mr.man call the village deep almost next to kiigo prison but he makes sure he drops her at home safely even when she has not been with him the whole day and only needs a lift from him in his longterm plans she is number one he adores the road she walks on. i ahve heard of so many people who get married to what everyone believes is a saved man and he changes only to become worse than those unsaved alcohol taking wifebeating men and i thought he being the counselling pastor would encourage her to encourage him to get saved i was so pissed could have bitten off his head!(dips hhead in water to cool off)

in another unrelated post a friend of mine okay she used to work next to me until she got another job was arrested, her father had her arrested un believable i know.he had been telling the judge that his daughter is disrespectful doesnt like him despises him so surmons(sp) were being sent to her to appear before the judge but she had been signing for them as recieved and not honouring them so she was arrested and was in luzira for 3 weeks.we just got to know today.apparently, yes there is another story behind the one he told. Her father wants to marry another woman her mother passed away but he wants his daughter out of home so he can bring in the other woman comfortably. she insists she cannot leave home yet coz she just finished campus and also her mum built the house they live in so she doesnt see why she has to be thrown out on account of her father marrying another woman to which i agree totallyand also her father had been forging her signiture to show that she has recieved the surmons .well her brothers have decide to move her out of home they have agreed to foot the bills and also the case is in court but i thing is for sure the world is slowly losing it.